Family distraught by theft of dead son's cap

Kahu Tahuriorangi with the cap his parents are pleading to have returned. Photo/supplied

By Stephanie Arthur-Worsop

A former Rotorua couple is questioning the kind of place their "hometown" has become after thieves broke into their car and stole their dead son's favourite cap.

Anthony and Marama Tahuriorangi returned to Rotorua for a holiday and to begin preparations for the headstone of their 16-year-old son Kahu, who died of rhabdomyosarcoma cancer late last year.

As part of the headstone, the couple planned to get their son's favourite baseball cap bronzed, to be incorporated into the memorial.

But on Tuesday evening, while the couple visited family, their rental car was broken into and the cap, along with other items, was stolen.

"We didn't actually notice the cap was gone until the next day. We were driving up to Hamilton when my wife realised it was gone. My first feeling was anger but for my wife she was just distraught, I tried to tell her it didn't matter but I knew she was weeping under her sunnies.

"All the other things, like my 7-year-old's iPad and the few T-shirts they took don't matter, all we care about is the cap.

"He loved that cap, he always wore it during his treatments," Mr Tahuriorangi said through tears.

"We wanted to give our son a headstone he deserved, a headstone that represented what his life was like, that's why we wanted this cap to be a part of that."

Mrs Tahuriorangi posted an impassioned plea on social media for the cap to be returned which quickly went viral, being shared more than 1500 times.

"We moved to Brisbane nine years ago but it was always our intention to bring Kahu back home to live if he got better or to bury him," Mr Tahuriorangi said.

"It hurts coming back to our hometown and seeing what it has become . . . It would be a small miracle if we did get the cap back but we're hoping human guilt will play on those who took it."

He said while his family had been hurt by the theft, they had also been blown away with the response on social media.

Mrs Tahuriorangi said her son was a "beautiful boy" who only wanted to be free from the rhabdomyosarcoma he was diagnosed with.

She said because of the type of cancer her son had, his treatment was aggressive, but "he was so strong through it all".

"We all thought because he was doing so well that he would fight it."

She said during his treatment and as he lost his hair, the cap became a second skin to him.

"The type or style had nothing to do with why he wore it all the time. When we packed his suitcase to be buried with him, for some reason we'd forgotten about this one cap.

"A month after his passing I decided to clean my wardrobe out of the blue and found it sitting right there like it was a sign.

"Whether he wanted me to find It I don't know but it was so good to have it with us. Caps were just a part of who he was."

The family are returning to Australia tomorrow but would still like to hear from anyone with information about the cap.

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01:07 pm Wednesday 24 May 2017
Would really appreciate it if the people that stolen from my dead cousin would return that stuff they took. This is heart breaking and for someone to steal off my family in our own home town is really sad and it hurts to see my family like this. We needed that hat for his headstone. I have a really short temper and for this to have happened im really p***** off. My family are still hurt by this death that has broke our families heart and you guys are just adding to the pain. R.I.P My Pikiao Warrior love you till the end of time xox


08:39 am Saturday 22 April 2017
Come on the person who took their beloved son's cap have a heart and return it back. This cap has sentimental value that money cant buy. Please please please from the bottom of my heart "Give the Cap back". Geez what is this country turning into? Shame on you for breaking into their car and stealing. Dam shame. The highest gift I give you is in a prayer for in it there is healing far more than you can imagine. RIP.


08:39 am Saturday 22 April 2017
I feel for your loss. Still nothing is been done regarding this sort of crime ! I'm sure no one from high up in the government, council, police etc would be reading feedback on is type of story either, to try and cure a problem that tarnishes our nation!

09:54 pm Friday 21 April 2017
Extremely sad to hear. Good that no one can steal memories otherwise they will steal that too.

Hope you get back the cap.


- Central North Island
09:01 pm Friday 21 April 2017
It's a world wide problem, not just associated with this town. We are a desperate society, and they are popping up all around the world. Never leave anything in a car that's of value to you.


- Hawkes Bay
08:12 pm Friday 21 April 2017
Never keep stuff in view in a car


- Howick
08:12 pm Friday 21 April 2017
This sort of crime is happening more frequently than ever these days. All the Police and Governemnt do is change the way crimes are reported, catagorized and dealt with. Et voila. Crime has dropped. YEAH RIGHT!!!!!!!

Mike Unger

08:12 pm Friday 21 April 2017
I so hope you get it back. Life can be sad and to make it less sad is a good thing. Return it!

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